Why are we impressed by the bare minimum?

Why are we impressed by the bare minimum? I’m not saying it’s right or wrong. Or that we should or should not change. I’m just looking into what the deal is here. There’s this mailman in the town I work in who is good looking. Once I sent a picture of him to my friend… Continue reading Why are we impressed by the bare minimum?

something’s gotta give: five first dates

I don’t know if I’m an optimist or a pessimist. I know I'm not a hopeless nor hopeful romantic. You could consider me an evidence-based realist with a mild affinity toward romance. Regardless, I’d really like to write to you and say we're not doomed. In fact, I first wrote this with a different thesis… Continue reading something’s gotta give: five first dates

a micro-idea about handling mood swings with a romantic partner – “it’s not you”

Hello! I posted a brand new YSN video on YouTube, which you can find below.  If you prefer to read content, then follow along with this blog! https://youtu.be/nWbAzN21G_E While I was planning a video with several tidbits about dating with mental illness, I ended up narrowing my thoughts into a single idea: ‘It’s not you’… Continue reading a micro-idea about handling mood swings with a romantic partner – “it’s not you”